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Reframing Therapy for Men

Because sometimes, soldiering on isn't the answer.

Counselling Online & in Tunbridge Wells

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Hi, I’m Dom McMurray

I’m a qualified counsellor offering therapy for men online and in Tunbridge Wells. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, disconnected or stuck, you’re not alone, and you don’t have to face it on your own.

​Whether you're carrying the pressure of work, navigating relationships or fatherhood, or just trying to hold it all together, therapy offers a space to offload the mental load, unpack the past, and find a new way forward.

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Why Men’s Mental Health Matters

Many men are reluctant to talk about how they’re really doing. That’s not because men don’t struggle — it’s because we’ve been told to push through, to solve things alone, to stay silent.

My counselling service is designed with that in mind. No fluff. No pressure to ‘open up’ before you’re ready. Just a straightforward space to talk, reflect, and start shifting the weight you’re carrying.

My Counselling Approach

As an integrative counsellor I practice a blended approach to create an honest and human relationship between myself and my client. Together we reflect on the present, explore the past and visualise a positive future. And I promise I won’t constantly ask you ‘how that made you feel’ as not everyone finds this easy. I will only ask you to bring the stuff you are comfortable sharing but I will help you explore your emotions if we think it will help. Learn more about my approach here.

What You Can Expect

There is no magic wand or bag of miracles. Although there is no advice I will always be 100% honest with you and there will be absolute faith that you have the resilience to find your pathway to change. I will accompany you on that path, by your side every step of the way. Your journey may be challenging, and at times raw but you will not be alone.

Issues I Work With

Services

My Counselling Services

Dom McMurray Online counselling for men

You don’t need to be in Kent to work with me. I offer online counselling via Google Meet to clients across the UK and beyond — including British expats who want culturally familiar support.
Online sessions offer privacy, flexibility, and the same high level of support, without the travel.

£55 per session

Sessions last 50 minutes

Online via Google Meet

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Prefer to meet face-to-face? I see clients from a quiet, discreet therapy room just a few minutes’ walk from Tunbridge Wells train station.
It’s central, private, and comfortable, a neutral space for clear thinking and honest conversation.

£55 per session

Sessions last 50 minutes

Face-to-face in Tunbridge-Wells

Ready to take the next step?

If you’re thinking about therapy and want to see if I’m the right fit, you can book a free 15-minute video consultation. It’s informal, confidential, and there is no pressure to continue.

This could be the first step toward feeling more like yourself again. If you have any questions first, feel free to contact me.

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"I tried to laugh about it. Cover it all up with lies. I tried to laugh about it. Hiding the tears in my eyes 'Cause boys don't cry Boys don't cry"

-The Cure

Articles & Publications

Alongside my counselling work, I write articles which explore the emotional challenges men face today, from burnout and stress to self-worth and rest. Each piece is written in the same tone I bring to therapy: honest, down-to-earth, and focused on making mental health more approachable. If you have any questions first, feel free to contact me.

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